The Worst Advice We’ve Ever Heard About so you’re still thinking of me just like i know you should
I know you are because I’m reading this and you are probably thinking “I don’t care if you still think I’m a dork.
Well, I do care. I care about you, and I am going to try to be as honest as I can because one of my biggest challenges in life is my own self-esteem. Many of my friends and acquaintances have told me that they are in fact very nice, kind, caring people, and that they would never say anything bad about me because they know that I care. Sadly, that is not enough for me to convince them that they are wrong.
Most people have an opinion about me, or at least an opinion about some of the things I do, and I get it. However, I do think it’s important to give an honest answer to the question “if you could say anything to someone, what would it be?” Because I’m a person with a very strong opinion about myself, and I don’t take criticism lightly.
Ive been told I care so much, that I can’t sit still for more than a few seconds, or even longer. People have told me I dont like to be alone, or at least I dont like to be around them. I don’t know why they think that, but I would guess that I’m actually trying to get away from people because I know that I love them.
You know how you could tell a person was trying to tell you something by how they act when they tell you something, right? Well, so does a person who is trying to break up with you. If you are in a relationship, you want to know that you are not the only one, and that it is okay to be alone.
“But I’m afraid that you’re lonely,” you say. “This is such a terrible thing to say to someone who is not even in the same room as you.
This is true. There might be a lot going on in a relationship, but if your partner is in another room, I think you are more likely to end up being alone and feeling lonely than you are in a relationship. You don’t know the truth about yourself, and you probably don’t want to know.
The truth about ourselves is that we are alone, and it is okay to be alone. We all have this secret place inside of ourselves that we call “me.” I think we all know that we’re not perfect and that we make mistakes. But when you’re alone, you can become aware of how flawed you really are. And you have the chance to take a stand.